Traveling With No Bags

Here we are halfway through my final year of my twenties.  I'm supposed to have at least 50 entries on this blog but hey... I am here now.  As I have stated in the previous entry, I feel like I can speak more about certain situations in my life. 

29 and a half!  How do I feel? Hmm...I am feeling pretty good these days.  For the first time I can honestly say that I am traveling with no bags.  Yeah, I made that up so let me hip you to my lingo.  For the first time, I am not hanging on to any baggage from previous relationships.  And by baggage I mean the actual person.  My exes tend to hang on to me.  And normally I let them.  They continue to frustrate me and get jealous as I attempt to move on with my life.  BUT NOW my heart is as cold as an assassin...I got no patience, and I hate waiting...my bad. LOL! But no for real, I finally buckled down and told the guys of my past that their ship had sailed and there was no chance for us to be together again.  I think we all keep certain people in our lives just in case.  For me, I was keeping up with guys who had really wronged me.  While I knew there was no chance in hell, I didn't exactly let them know that.  So I put my big girl draws on and spoke up.  And when I tell you that it has been refreshing, it truly has.  I feel like I can date more freely or travel with no bags!

Now the dating thing has been another story.  LOL! Since I am a very picky dater, I don't date too often.  I have been spending a lot of time focusing on me, hanging with friends, and taking cold showers.  I am enjoying every minute of it though!

Until next post...