Ninjas is Bitches Too

I feel like it's been forever since I have blogged but it's only been a week.  I got myself a new gig, I am adapting so forgive me for my tardiness in post.  I'm really only speaking to my 1 or 2 readers. LOL
Any who, it's a snow day here in Phoenixland.  So I'm sitting here watching Pocahontas, washing clothes, and thinking.  Anyone who knows me knows that I have crazy stories about the men I have had in my life.  Some of them so unbelievable that they are worth putting them in a book...which I've started multiple times.  As I sat here thinking, I thought about my last couple of efforts at the relationship/dating thing.  They're all fairly different from each other because I don't have a specific type of man that I go for but they all have one thing in common: they don't know what the hell they want!

It's funny because men say that women never know what they want.  But over a process of the last few years I have learned what I want in a man.  And no, it's not a list of height, weight, and wallet size preferences; it's plain and simple.  I want a man who knows what he wants.  This includes all aspects of life: his aspirations, his woman, his children, everything.  I believe that when a man is sure in what he wants it makes it easier for me to trust him.  Think about our powerful leaders.  They have such confidence in their goals that it makes it easier to follow them. 

I say my last few had no clue.  But let them tell it, they did.  There was one who had these things that he knew his lady had to do.  I adapted to the things that he wanted.  He had a lady that cooked, cleaned, and sexed him up and yet he still found something wrong and stepped out on me.  He had what he wanted right? Another just didn't know what he wanted at all.  He thought he wanted me but then again he liked his freedom, but wait...he couldn't live without me, and then it was about the things I didn't do.  Honey was too confused, I decided for him and left him the hell alone.  So yeah, like I said, men always complain that woman are confused and never know what they want.  After my last couple of rounds with them I have concluded that "Ninjas is bitches too". And I meant to say is...